ALPHA MALE: Does Your Wardrobe Reflect Your Work/Life Balance?
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Despite the “where” and the “what” of the roles you fill, one thing is certain. You want to be prepared for your day. After all, as the saying goes, “Success always comes when opportunity meets preparation.” So what does your style say about your work and life balance in these moments? Or maybe more importantly, what does you work and life balance say about your style?
Do you "mail it in?"
It is always easier to give in to the demands of your day than to give a damn. How often do you just “mail it in” with regards to what your wear on any given day? Going to work? Khakis. Oxford. Have a kid at home sick from school? Sweatpants and T-shirt. But there is an opportunity here to do something more. There are books written about striving for a great work/life balance. More recently, I heard the phrase “work/life integration” because, seriously, how many of us get to actually balance the two? (I for one, prefer the latter sentiment.) But regardless of terminology, I like to think of your style as being a part of your preparation to set the tone for your day.
Starting the day with intention
You have been told dozens of times how important breakfast is to starting the day right. “The most important meal of the day.” Why should that only apply to how you approach your first meal of the day? Should the sentiment not encompass the entire start to your day, including what you eat, what activities you perform and even what you wear? If you do not respect every aspect of yourself, how do you expect to accomplish the demands you place on yourself today? Your work/life integration is not merely a conditional state of mind, but an act of vigilance that speaks to your personal level of determination and satisfaction.
I will be the first to admit, I do not always give forethought to each aspect of my day's demands. But one thing I have learned about myself and my schedule, regardless of day or complexity, I have a closet I can pull from with items appropriate for that day. Part of that confidence is understanding what my typical daily demands are. Part is knowing what works for me in my closet, and part is being able to reach for items that meet the day's demands and can be flexible throughout the day.
I know not many people plan ahead and maybe do not grab an extra shirt or even an entirely different outfit if his or her schedule has diametrically opposed events regarding attire in the same day. But maybe that says more about your ability to prepare for any circumstance and not just what you are wearing.
Prepare, prepare, prepare
How you prepare for your day on multiple levels, including what you wear, says a lot about you as a person and your character. None of us is perfect. Life pulls at us in many directions, often all at once. But feeling you are prepared for your day reflects in your daily appearance. Confidence is a great color on you. Do not be afraid to show it off. And if you are lucky enough to be on that 5:45am flight to London? Do yourself favor. Please do not repeat the sweatpants and T-sirt from when the kids are sick. Grab your favorite blazer and a trim pair of chinos. You never know when you might encounter your next opportunity for success.
- ALPHA MALE: Finding the Right Denim
- ALPHA MALE: Searching for Your Perfect Brand
- ALPHA MALE: Transitioning Your Seasonal Wardrobe
- ALPHA MALE: How Soccer Dads Can Dress for Success
- ALPHA MALE: Layering for Early Fall
- ALPHA MALE: Beyond the “Male Uniform”